Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Why Do I Keep Doing This?

Unlearn the Habits Keeping You Stuck and Unhappy
by Kati Morton
Psychology 21 min read ★★★★½ 4.6 (123)
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About This Book

Why Do I Keep Doing This? (2025) explores how childhood survival strategies around control keep adults trapped in toxic cycles of approval-seeking and people-pleasing. It unveils how behaviors that were once protective disconnect people from their authentic selves and block genuine connection, and shows how you can begin to break free from your unconscious patterns.

Who Should Read This?

  • People-pleasers who apologize constantly and have difficulty saying no
  • Burned out achievers wondering why they feel so empty despite striving for perfection
  • Anyone seeking to understand why rest and self-care feel impossible to justify

About the Author

Kati Morton holds a master’s degree in clinical psychology from Pepperdine University and is a licensed marriage and family therapist based in California. Her work breaking down mental health stigma has reached over 150 million views on YouTube, where she answers questions and provides practical guidance on topics including trauma, anxiety, and relationship patterns. She has also authored two previous books, Are u ok? and Traumatized.